Saturday, November 6, 2010

Advantages of Offline Dating and Matchmaking for Christians

If you are looking for sincere confidential and privacy, offline is the best way to find love. Many people enjoy the online experience because it gives them an opportunity to use fake profile information and post fake pictures.
Men and woman are made for love, not to be alone. That is how God intended it to be, and that’s why we feel lonely and alone even when extended family are around us after divorce or when a spouse dies. There are people who never married, and now feel alone ready to take the step and get married.
Choosing the right mate can be scary and tiresome for someone who is grieving the loss of a mate, or a divorce even after years. You don’t want to put yourself out there for abuse and dishonest online users who will trample all over your vulnerabilities.
This is where an affordable and sincere offline matchmaker who is not out to get rich off you can help connect you to like minded individuals and guide you in this venture so beautiful and exiting it makes life worth the living. Because love is an institution of God, the matchmaker you choose must respect Gods will for your life.

People prefer offline matchmaker

1. To find like minded soul mate. (specific preference)
2. People who like there space uncluttered.
3. There are no eligible people in the immediate area.
4. Find a Christian mate.
5. Age: looking for a mature mate.
6. Find a soul mate for any person, disabled or other handicaps.
7. Language: easier to specify your preference.
8. Appearance; easier and more comfortable to be yourself with the person you are connected to.
9. More security and confidentiality.
10. People who value their personal privacy.
11. Serious about finding love.
12. People who know what they want in life, not double minded.
13. More likely to get married.
About online and offline:
a) Offline Dating can be a lot of fun; you meet and correspond with people from your area or country, share pictures and get to know each other without the intrusion of other people online.
b) Writing about your life and having someone share your pain or joys are helpful and uplifting.
c) Do not have the problem here that online dating has; with online not everyone is honest enough to post true details and or pictures of themselves so you may end up “loving” a pervert, a fraudster who is out to steal from you.
d) Online Photo’s; people post pictures that does not belong to them.
e) Men/Woman visits online sites to find vulnerable and desperate people.
f) You can lie all you want online, no one will ever know.
Dangers of online
It can be very dangerous to place your personal details out there for all to see, these days you have to look out for your personal safety and your honour. Do not allow you’re self to become so desperate that you fall “in love” with some one you’ve never met or you’ve not had the change to get to know on a friendly bases.
There has been numerous people both male and female who was done in by people whom they trusted and turn out the person is married after you’ve invested financially and emotionally in the relationship.

Safety in offline:
The reasons why people choose an offline matchmaker are similar to that of online dating. Everyone needs love and companionship.
The difference is the Following:
1. A Safer way of finding love.
2. Better controlled membership.
3. Your profile is viewed only by people in your match group.
4. More confidentiality and privacy.
5. Members seem to be more sincere about finding love and being the right lover.
6. Abuse very seldom happen.
7. You are mare likely to find people in your town or province.
8. Get to know people in your own time.
9. Honesty and trust is priority.